LGBT Survey: Roar: Because silence is deadly.

Stonewall Housing LGBT Survey: Roar: Because silence is deadly.

Many lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT*) people experience domestic abuse from partners, ex-partners, intimate contacts or extended family members. In light of the Equality Act, public services have a duty to help meet the needs of all survivors of domestic abuse including LGBT* people.

We want to find out if the law has been put into practice? Do some LGBT people continue to face additional hurdles when seeking help? What are those barriers? What are the consequences of delay? We are diverse and different in many ways, but the one thing we all deserve is equality, dignity and respect when we are most vulnerable.

We want to learn from LGBT survivors about that experience, when asking for help, support, advice or accommodation. If you are a survivor of domestic abuse we want to hear your voice.

If you do one thing today… Roar: because silence is deadly.

Go to…

https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/RoarLGBTDAF2013

or via link at

https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/FLR83FF

A report with recommendations from this survey will be published on 20th September 2013 at Stonewall Housing’s next annual conference.

Go to http://www.lgbtdaf.org for further details and updates.

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May 11: Monthly Drop-in/Social

Shaun Dellenty, Founder of Inclussion for All has kindly agreed to join us for this months drop-in/social on Saturday 11th May.

Shaun Dellenty

We will be discussing how Inclussion for All is tackling bullying in our schools and what we at 17-24-30 can do to support it.

The monthly drop-in/social take place between 2pm to 5pm at 170 Community Project, 170 New Cross Road, SE14 5AA

Facebook event: Monthly LGBT+ Drop-in/Social

Event funded by 17-24-30 and Telegraph Hill Assembly

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Original Soho Plaque missing

Soho PlaqueThe original memorial plaque dedicated to Andrea Dykes, John Light and Nick Moore who died in the Admiral Duncan Bombing (30th April 1999) has gone missing.

Mark Healey from 17-24-30 noticed that it had gone during recent checks.

“If anyone has taken the plaque I hope that they will return it. It is a shame that it has gone missing as we approach the 14th anniversary of these horrific attacks.”

Mark has been in touch with the Moore family, St Anne’s Church, the local police and Westminster Council – unfortunately no-one knows where the plaque is.

Westminster Council are responsible for looking after St Anne’s Gardens and have agreed to order a new plaque which will cost £260. 17-24-30 have agreed to help cover the costs so that a replacement plaque can be ordered straight away. It is hoped the new plaque will arrive in time for Tuesday service.

Admiral Duncan Nail Bombing

The Admiral Duncan bombing was the third of three nail bomb attacks carried out by David Copeland who wanted to stir up fear and hatred so that the British National Party would be elected. Luckily his plan failed but not before he had planted three bombs over the course of three weeks targeting the Black communities of Brixton (17th April), the Asian communities of Brick Lane (24th April) and the Gay communities of Soho (30th April).

The three nail bomb attacks left three people dead in Soho and over 150 people injured (47 people in Brixton, 6 in Brick Lane and 97 in Soho).

Killed during Soho Bomb17-24-30 was founded in April 2009 to mark the 10th anniversary of the London Nail Bomb attacks after local debate over whether or not the annual acts of remembrance should continue.

“17-24-30 believes that it is important that the communities continue to gather together to show our ongoing commitment to support those affected by these and other horrific attacks and to ensure that all forms of hate is challenged within our communities. Goodness is stronger than evil as long we continue to stand together.”

Over 2,000 people joined the 17-24-30 Facebook group within the first month and the organisation (now registered as a small charity with HMRC) continues to organise and facilitate the annual acts of remembrance in liaison with the Moore family, The Admiral Duncan, St Anne’s Church, and local authorities (police and council).

Since 17-24-30 has recruited volunteers to organise and facilitate similar acts of remembrance in Brixton and Brick Lane – which has been welcomed by local residents.

Brixton Brick Lane 2013On Tuesday 30th April people will gather at the Admiral Duncan by 6pm, then at 6.15 those who wish to take part in the service will walk round to St Anne’s Gardens where this year’s Act of Remembrance will be led by Rev Simon Buckley (New Priest in charge of St Anne’s Church) and Mark Healey from 17-24-30. There will be a two-minute silence at 6.37pm (the time the bomb exploded) followed by a song by members of the local choir Diversity. Everyone is welcome.

Afterwards the really marvellous Mrs. Moore (not related to Nick Moore) will be performing a special show with donations welcome to 17-24-30. Free Entry.

Donations towards the replacement plaque and 17-24-30′s ongoing work are welcome on-line: Donate Here

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17-24-30: MAKE TIME TO SHOW YOUR SUPPORT

Mark Healey Make Time to Show your Support

14 years on and another set of anniversaries is passing us by.

17-24-30 the dates of the three nail bomb attacks that took place in April 1999 when David Copeland set out to stir up fear and hatred by launching a series of attacks targeting the Black, Asian and Gay communities of Brixton, Brick Lane and Soho.

Whilst many people have moved on with their lives, this time of the year can be quite painful for some. Especially those who were there, those who experienced what happened first hand, those who lost family and friends, those who felt that their communities were under attack and those  who read and watched the reports in the news as these horrific events unfolded.

The bombings in Boston last week served as a painful reminder leading up to this year’s anniversary in Brixton. They made the act of remembrance on the 17th April that more significant as we gathered to remember the first bomb planted in Brixton Market which injured 47 people including a small child who had a nail embedded in his skull.

Lighting candlesWe had more volunteers turn up this year, more people helping to light the candles, hand out leaflets and spend time talking to passers-by who shared their experiences with us. The lucky man whose friend had just stumbled from a nearby pub and who has just walked away from the market as the bomb exploded, the mother with child now 13 who was pregnant with the child shopping in the area at the time.

Each person deals with this time of year differently – some don’t want to be reminded about it at all whilst other think it is important that we make sure our communities never forget – to ensure that we remain vigilant so it does not happen again and we are there for those who need on-going support.

Which is why we never expect individuals to attend but always expect the wider communities to show their support – which they can do in many ways.

Brixton Volunteers

17-24-30 believes that whatever happens it is important to be there and show our support to those that need it. Whether it is for the few people who turn up in Brixton and Brick Lane each year or the hundred or so people who gather in Soho.

Annually we gather on the anniversaries of these events at 6pm and we are asking you to make the time to show your support too. Come along and stand with us, talk with our volunteers, meet people and make new friends – help us make sure that as people naturally move on with their lives that those who remain are not left feeling isolated and alone.

24th April Brick Lane Remembers 17-24-30. This year we had a brilliant turn out, nine volunteers turned up to hand out information and speak to passers-by. Some local shop keepers came over and said that it was good to see us again and we engaged in some positive conversations with people. Sadly the owners of the Sweet and Spicy Restaurant have retired and sold up so we moved to Chillies restaurant which is a few doors down.

Brick Lane Volunteers

30th April join us at 6pm at The Admiral Duncan before we walk round to St Anne’s Garden, Wardour St for a short service lead by Rev Simon Buckley, a few words by Mark Healey and members of the Moore family and a song by the Diversity Choir,

14 Years on make time

In whatever way you can – make time to show your support. If you can’t join us then share this post and comment on-line. Follow us on Facebook and Twitter and think about making a donation to support our ongoing campaign to encourage people to work together to tackle all forms of hate crime in our communities.

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Mark Healey: Why I think it is important to support Pride

Mark Healey waving flag for London PrideWhen Ian Baynham was punched and kicked into a coma, later dying from the injuries he sustained, Pride London along with other organisations helped me stage the first London Vigil against Hate Crime (30th October 2009).

This was one of the biggest street mobilisations against homophobia outside of the Pride season for over a decade and I doubt we would have been able to pull it off as successfully as we did without the skills and experience that people had learnt whilst being involved in events like Pride.

Pride is important to me because I see it as a great opportunity to bring people together who believe in human rights.

It is so much more than just standing up for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Liberation around the globe, it is an opportunity to be inclusive and celebrate the spectrum of diversity that exists across our many communities.

We can also sign-post and promote important campaigns and the good work that people are involved in; raising awareness and tackling so many important issues – like tackling Hate Crime and ensuring that those who commit these crimes are brought to justice.

Volunteering for Pride is hard work but it is also a wonderful experience meeting new people, learning and sharing skills. It helps empower people and give them self-confidence which in turn benefits their communities too.

I firmly believe that the more you put into Pride the more you enjoy it and for all of the reasons above and more Pride also helps us to keep things moving forward, it strengthens our communities to stand up for our rights and makes life for many people even better.

I am amazed at how far we have come since the Stonewall Riots and hope that we can continue to work together with the new London LGBT+ Community Pride organisation to ensure that Pride keeps going so that future generations can appreciate it as much too.

Having attended all the meetings that took place after World Pride last year I have seen a talented group of people come forward representing a diverse section of our many communities and I am confident that they are going to do some brilliant work over the next five years running Pride – which is why I’m glad to get behind them too.

I’ve donated £10 today and will be doing everything I can to encourage other people to volunteer and get involved.

Find out how you can help at London LGBT+ Community Pride

 

 

 

 

 

 

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April acts of remembrance 17-24-30

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In April 1999 David Copeland set out to stir up fear and hatred in the hope that it would lead to the election of the British National Party. He planted three nail bombs over a period of three weekends. The first bomb targetting the black communities of Brixton on Saturday 17th April, the next bomb targetting the asian communities of Brick Lane on Saturday 24th April and finally the third and final nail bomb on Friday 30th April in a bar called The Admiral Duncan, Soho – targetting the gay community.

His attacks killed three people and injured many more.

A small group of us believe that it is important to remember what happened which is why we call ourselves 17-24-30. Reminding ourselves and those around us that it is important to continue to stand by those who need our support, to work to bring our communities closer together and to remain vigilant so we prevent this happening again.

If you would like to join us:

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Brixton – Wed 17th April – meeting from 6pm onwards outside the Iceland store to light candles, hold a moments silence, pass out information and talk to people about 17-24-30.

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Brick Lane – Wed 24th April – meeting from 6pm onwards outside the Sweet and Spicy Resturant opposite the Police Station. Again lighting candles, holding a moments silence, passing out information and talking to people about 17-24-30. Afterwards we are planning to have a meal at the Sweet and Spicy Resturant as this has been really successful the last couple of years.

Admiral Duncan Service

Soho – Tuesday 30th April – meeting at The Admiral Duncan by 6pm, before the procession at 6.15 round to St Anne’s gardens for a short service lead by the new priest from St Anne’s Church. This year Diversity are joining us to sing a song after the 2 minutes silence at 6.37pm. We’ve been in contact with the council, the police, the church and some of the survivors, friends and families who regularly attend each year. Newcomers are always welcome to come along.

We need volunteers to help steward and organise these events so get in touch if you fancy helping out!

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A message from GMFA

New beginnings, new surroundings

A message from Matthew Hodson, GMFA’s Head of Programmes

Dear supporter,

I wanted to write to you to let you know about some of the changes that are happening with GMFA, and how this will affect the work that we do in future.

As you are probably aware, this is a tough time for HIV prevention, and across the statutory and charitable sector: budgets are being slashed, resources are being expended in large scale reorganisations and leadership is changing.

All of this means profound changes for GMFA. Over the last year the majority of our contracts have come to their end and, for a variety of reasons (including budget cuts, reorganisation, commissioning priorities etc.) have not been renewed.

This does not mean that this work is not valued. Since hearing that both the websites and FS magazine are no longer going to be funded (right now, at the very least) I have received emails and messages from other providers of HIV prevention services, from members of the gay community who benefit from them and even from commissioners, about how these services have helped the struggle to prevent new infections and how shocked and saddened they are at the threat of their loss.

We believe that FS and our websites are both hugely valuable in providing gay men with information, advice and motivation to prevent the transmission of HIV. We believe that they should be funded. Our goal over the coming months is to convince those who have the power to fund them (whether those funds come from statutory, charitable or community sources) to agree.

Whilst this position is obviously a daunting one to find ourselves in, I also believe that it may prove to be a great opportunity for us, an opportunity to re-think what we do and how we do it. I don’t believe that I am alone in thinking that increasing portions of the gay community are considerably less engaged with HIV prevention than in the past.

At the same time, the environment in which we operate has changed enormously, and continues to evolve. HIV is increasingly a manageable condition. Anyone who seeks out this information will find it, so it’s no surprise that the fear which once prevented many people from taking any sexual risks is diminished. Despite these advances, people who live with HIV continue to suffer both physical and emotional disadvantages over the course of their lives as a result of their infection.

And it’s not just the medical situation that has changed. The way that we meet other men for sex has changed too. Back when HIV first hit the UK’s gay community, men would usually meet their sex partners in bars, clubs or cruising grounds. For some years now online dating sites and other social media have replaced that, and now with Grindr and similar apps, a gay man can just as easily hook up with someone in an ostensibly straight bar, or on public transport, or from the comfort of his own home, as ever men could in bars etc.

And this ability to meet up with other men for sex away from bars has also, in part, contributed to the rise of sexualised drug taking. There is an increasing body of anecdotal evidence that suggests that gay men, in large numbers, are getting drawn into drug fuelled spirals of sex. There have been similar moral panics in the past about drug use in the gay community but there are fears that the sexual health impact of Crystal Meth and GHB dwarfs any previous drug related threats to our community.

As I say, a huge amount about the environment has changed. Operating outside of contracts for a short time provides us with the space to refresh and renew our work. To ask, ‘if there were no history of HIV prevention, is this how we’d do it? Who are the men we need to reach most, and how do we best reach them?’

We have decided then to realise the assets that we have to continue to fund our work, providing (without contracts or income) the work that we believe to have the greatest value in preventing the transmission of HIV and other STIs. To do this there will need to be changes in the way that the organisation is run, we need to become a leaner, more efficient operation, depending on increasing support and guidance from the community that we serve and which, through the input of our supporters, our volunteers and our staff, we also represent.

We will take this opportunity to look with fresh eyes at the scale of the challenges that we face, both organisationally and in terms of improving sexual health and preventing HIV infections amongst gay men. We have the opportunity to ask the difficult questions, such as how to provide support to the man who has got himself into an unmanageable spiral of sexualised drug use where the majority of his peers don’t use condoms?

How do we reach the younger gay man, coming to terms with his sexuality, who may not feel able to make demands about sexual safety to his partners? How do we engage community with the tangible harms that stigmatisation of people living with HIV causes? How do we encourage increased uptake of testing? Should we be encouraging men to have fewer sexual partners, as well as increasing their condom use? How do we meet the needs of men who knowingly engage in risky behaviour whilst, at the same time, helping those men who consistently use condoms to maintain their strategy of sexual safety?

I know that there is no one group, no single need and so no single message which will have the impact that we aspire to, but we now have the opportunity to think in new and creative ways about harnessing the powers of social media, engaging with new dating technologies, finding new motivators in our messages about testing and condom use, to engage in a way that I believe has not happened for some years.

We are of course interested to hear your ideas. The lack of engagement with sexual health within the community is also a result of the community failing to see how they can shape the HIV prevention work that there is. With fewer resources available to us we may not be able to put every idea into practise, but we want to hear how we can best support you, and we want to hear from you how you think we’re doing, every step of the way, as we work to increase our community engagement. Email us at gmfa@gmfa.org.uk, tweet us via @GMFA_UK or drop us a line via our Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/GMFA.UK. If you’d like to come to a community forum to discuss ideas, contact us and we’ll set one up.

Gay men still carry a disproportionate burden of HIV infection and poor sexual health. Each year the number of gay men being diagnosed with HIV increases, and the proportion of our community that is living with HIV rises in turn. We believe that we can make a difference. With your support and guidance we believe that we can prevent new infections and improve the health of our community. I hope that you will join with us to be part of this new adventure.

Matthew Hodson

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